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What did the Latter-day Saints use whiskey and water
for in early Utah?
a.
Reducing fevers
b.
Drinking only
c.
Medicine for lame
horses
d.
Fuel for their
tractors
Yesterday’s
answer:
C Polygamy
While Church and community service and even employment
could make for painful separations between companions, some Latter-day Saint
women also expressed anxiety over the physical and emotional distances that
resulted from involvement in plural marriage. When Latter-day Saints first
publicly acknowledged in 1852 that plural marriage was widely taught and
practiced among them, the response of most non-Mormons paralleled that of Eliza
R. Snow in Nauvoo, who wrote, “The subject was very repugnant to my feelings—so
directly was it in opposition to my educated pre-possessions.” Polygamy
incurred heated public opposition until 1890, when the Church formally
abandoned the practice. Women who gave husbands their permission to take
additional wives, and women who agreed to become plural wives in established
families, usually struggled to attain a spiritual witness that the principle
was divine.
In spite of
such spiritual anchors, plural marriage enforced women to cope with jealousy.
Jane Charters Robinson Hindley of American Fork, Utah, herself a second wife,
expressed in her diary the dread she felt when Mr. Hindley “returned and
brought two I cannot call them wives yet it seems so strange. Oh what my
feelings are this moment. . . . May God help me in my weakness and forgive me
if I falter in my duty and affection to him I love.” Patty Sessions found that
the bringing home of a second wife, Rosilla, resulted in a tense martial
triangle. “I feel bad again,” she wrote of September 8, 1847. “he had been and
talked to Rosilla and she filed his ears full and when he came to my bed I was
quite chilled he was gone so long and I was so cold I had been crying.”
Many women,
however, found within the plural marriage system tolerable or even good marital
relations. Bathsheba W. Smith and Lucy Meserve Smith were both plural wives of
George A. Smith: each rejoiced in his affection, which neither seems to have
measured, and both corresponded with than often lived with other wives in the
family. Martha Cragun Cox said she had her two “sister wives” “love each other
more than sisters, children of one mother love.” According to Martha, “We
enjoyed may privileges that single wifery never knew,” including the sharing of
child care and housekeeping responsibilities.
Women’s
Voices-An Untold History of The Latter-day Saints 1830-1900 (Salt Lake City: Deseret Book Company, 1982), 15-16.
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